The Comparison Trap: Why There’s Room for Every Photographer

Being a photographer in Michigan can feel like standing in the middle of a crowded room, all of us with cameras slung over our shoulders, trying to catch someone’s eye. On any given day, it feels like there are dozens—if not hundreds—of new photographers popping up on social media, all with their own styles, their own loyal clients, their own stunning work. And if I’m being completely honest, scrolling through my feed sometimes leaves me with that sinking feeling: am I enough compared to everyone else out there?

Group of photographers with their cameras early 1900's. Sometimes entering a park at this time of the year feels like you are fighting for ground against intimidating fellow photographers with your clients in tow.

The truth is, I struggle with this regularly. It’s so easy to fall into the trap of comparing—of looking at another photographer’s feed and thinking they must have it all figured out. They have perfect edits, booked-out calendars, dream venues, and magazine-worthy couples. Meanwhile, I catch myself questioning: where do I fit in? Do I have a place in an industry that feels so saturated?

But here’s what I’ve been reminding myself lately: Michigan is full of people. Not just people—families, couples, entrepreneurs, artists, seniors, newlyweds, grandparents, new parents, small business owners. People with different styles, stories, and needs. And with all of that variety, there is plenty of work to go around. Every photographer brings something different to the table—whether it’s how we see light, how we interact with clients, or how we edit images to reflect the emotions we want to highlight.

Meghan and Brenden laughing as they enjoy their first bite of cake as a married couple at the Madison in downtown Detroit, Michigan.

Sometimes it does feel like we’re fighting for each client, and competition can be very real. But when I step back, I realize that most people don’t want just a photographer—they want their photographer. The one they feel comfortable with, the one who captures them authentically, the one whose personality matches theirs. And no matter how many photographers there are in Michigan, there’s only one me. Just like there’s only one you.

Me, Alex, taking a moment to pose for a photograph of myself capturing table details of my client's wedding at Canterbury Village Castle.

Comparison, especially fueled by social media, makes it easy to forget that. We see everyone’s highlight reels and forget that behind those perfect squares, others are struggling too—with doubt, with imposter syndrome, with the same “am I good enough?” questions. The reality is that no two photographers are exactly the same. And because of that, there really is room for us all.

For clients, this matters too. It’s tempting to scroll Instagram and book the photographer with the trendiest edits or the biggest following. But your photographer isn’t just there to click a button—they’re there to create space where you feel comfortable, to tell your story in a way that feels real to you. The connection you have with your photographer will shape how you feel in front of the camera, and ultimately, how you feel when you look back at your photos. That’s something social media can’t always show.

Joyce and Owen taking a few moments away from the party to enjoy their cake, just the two of them, as an officially married couple.

So if you’re a fellow photographer scrolling through your feed tonight, wondering if you measure up—this is your reminder (and mine too): the work you do matters. The way you see the world is unique. And if you’re someone searching for a photographer, this is my encouragement to you: look beyond the curated feeds. Find the person who makes you feel seen, heard, and comfortable. Because when that happens, the photos will follow—and they’ll mean more than any trend ever could.

✨ If that sounds like the kind of experience you’re looking for here in Michigan, I’d love to connect with you. Reach out, and let’s create something that feels like you. ✨